You getting engaged will definitely be one of the most memorable and exciting moments in your life. For t­he first few weeks after the proposal, you are both filled with happiness and are eager to share the proposal story with anyone that cares to listen. You’ve met the man or woman you want to spend your life with, and you’ve decided to get hitched. Now it’s time to plan the official celebration of your love and commitment- the wedding.

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39 things to do to avoid last minute stress

6 – 12 months before the big day
 Decide on a date(s)
 Make an appointment with Clergyman
 Determine a budget.
 Have an estimate of the number of guests.
 Set the time, location of Ceremony, Rehearsal & Reception Venue.
 Choose Professional Photographer / Videographer / DJ/Live band
 Shop for wedding gown: Several fittings will be required especially if buying
 Obtain Decor & Music estimates; book services if possible.
 Choose brides maids and determine the number of people you want on the bridal party
 Pick a honeymoon destination: (renew passports & Obtain Visa information if required.)
 Begin selection of a Caterer and start making arrangements for drinks

5 months before the big day
 Finalize the estimated number of guests as it is not common to have an invite-only wedding in Nigeria.
 Make arrangements for invitations and wedding programme
 Decide on wedding colours and shortlist potential vendors for your decor
 Plan your reception. (Your choice of seating plan and the number of ushers required)
 Choose attire (aso ebi/ outfit for bride and groom for the traditional wedding ceremony)
 Start making honeymoon plans in order to bag a good deal.
 Decide on caterer and ensure you take your chosen caterer’s advice as they have the relevant experience
 Confirm delivery of bridal gown, and if you are getting yours made confirm with seamstress when you will be having you first fitting
 Shortlist potential bridal makeup artists and make an appointment to see their work
 Order wedding and engagement cakes.
 Arrange transportation for all members of bridal party to & from ceremony & reception locations.
 Go over details of reception with caterer / manager in charge of your reception venue.
 If you are renting any equipment, reserve it now. (Chairs, table, marquee)
 Decided on your wedding favours to avoid last minute rush

2 months before the big day
 Inform clergyman of all the details of your ceremony. You will need to show a copy of the programme.
 Plan rehearsal dinner.
 Select attendants’ gifts, grooms gift.
 Check all services.
 Make moving arrangements.
 Final dress fitting.

1 month before the big day
 Choose wedding bands.
 Send out invitations.
 Make room reservations for out of town guests.
 Check wedding party outfit.
 Confirm music arrangements & check selections.
 Get confirmation from all your vendors
 Discuss rehearsal dinner with hosts.
 Attend Bridal shower.