39 things to do to avoid last minute stress

6 – 12 months before the big day
 Decide on a date(s)
 Make an appointment with Clergyman
 Determine a budget.
 Have an estimate of the number of guests.
 Set the time, location of Ceremony, Rehearsal & Reception Venue.
 Choose Professional Photographer / Videographer / DJ/Live band
 Shop for wedding gown: Several fittings will be required especially if buying
 Obtain Decor & Music estimates; book services if possible.
 Choose brides maids and determine the number of people you want on the bridal party
 Pick a honeymoon destination: (renew passports & Obtain Visa information if required.)
 Begin selection of a Caterer and start making arrangements for drinks

5 months before the big day
 Finalize the estimated number of guests as it is not common to have an invite-only wedding in Nigeria.
 Make arrangements for invitations and wedding programme
 Decide on wedding colours and shortlist potential vendors for your decor
 Plan your reception. (Your choice of seating plan and the number of ushers required)
 Choose attire (aso ebi/ outfit for bride and groom for the traditional wedding ceremony)
 Start making honeymoon plans in order to bag a good deal.
 Decide on caterer and ensure you take your chosen caterer’s advice as they have the relevant experience
 Confirm delivery of bridal gown, and if you are getting yours made confirm with seamstress when you will be having you first fitting
 Shortlist potential bridal makeup artists and make an appointment to see their work
 Order wedding and engagement cakes.
 Arrange transportation for all members of bridal party to & from ceremony & reception locations.
 Go over details of reception with caterer / manager in charge of your reception venue.
 If you are renting any equipment, reserve it now. (Chairs, table, marquee)
 Decided on your wedding favours to avoid last minute rush

2 months before the big day
 Inform clergyman of all the details of your ceremony. You will need to show a copy of the programme.
 Plan rehearsal dinner.
 Select attendants’ gifts, grooms gift.
 Check all services.
 Make moving arrangements.
 Final dress fitting.

1 month before the big day
 Choose wedding bands.
 Send out invitations.
 Make room reservations for out of town guests.
 Check wedding party outfit.
 Confirm music arrangements & check selections.
 Get confirmation from all your vendors
 Discuss rehearsal dinner with hosts.
 Attend Bridal shower.